“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice!
Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near.
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
– Philippians 4:4-7
Cultural seismometers may go crazy today, but it doesn’t mean we all must dive under our beds. There is a way to stay on balance even when the earth beneath you is shifting—and it’s simpler than you may think . . .
It’s 3:45 AM and I am up, wide-awake and praying. No, not about the impending California State Supreme Court decision affecting marriage. Nor am I praying about President Obama’s pick for the next US Supreme Court, which he may announce today.
Instead, I’ve been praying for my father, Hank Schenck, who is dying of cancer. Oh, I’ll get around to praying for the other things, but Dad comes first. I tell you this because it’s helping me to keep things in proper perspective. There are the things that matter; and then there are the things that really matter.
When I was in Bible college preparing for the ministry, my mentors drove into me, “God first, family second, everything else third.”
Like so many things, I didn’t get the practical implementation of this quite right until only recently. Ask my now adult kids about the time I “allocated” to them during my early years of ministry. Back then I was sure it was plenty, given all the demands on my life, but it wasn’t—not by a long shot.
So, while today carries a potential double-whammy to one of the core institutions in human civilization and American culture (and I draw a critical distinction between the two), one thing remains immanently more important: Dad.
I say it again because a lot of people may be shaken up by what happens today: The California Supreme Court, representing the judicial branch of the largest state in our Union, may rule that a constitutional amendment by the people of that state is, well, unconstitutional. To my layman’s mind, that seems ludicrous, because the only way to change a constitution is by amendment. If the court strikes down this amendment, it will say two things: The California state constitution is immutable and seven judges are the only ones ever able to discern its meaning and application. That’s weird.
Should President Obama announce his nominee for the U.S. Supreme Court today, it could signal a prospective federal justice sympathetic to such an outcome in California and receptive to a national challenge on the definition of marriage. (I know the President has affirmed that marriage is only for a man and woman, but his legal philosophy makes room for a different finding on that question once its examined by his judicial appointees.)
Notwithstanding the outcomes of all these machinations, one thing remains clear to me: God, family and everything else remains the order for today, tomorrow and forever. Even if I lived in some God-awful place, like Somalia, or North Korea, or Cuba, these would still be the right priorities for me.
Should Prop 8’s success go down in flames today, “God, Family, Then Everything Else,” will not only stand, it will become our “modus vivendi,” or way of living, in the midst of cultural tension. This is the way the early Christians transformed the Roman world, a cultural environment in far greater conflict with Biblical Truth than what we here experience now or may experience in the near future.
It was because of their love of God, love of one another and love for even their enemies, that the first generations of Christians were able to be salt and light. Many of their killers were converted in the end and whole empires embraced their message.
When I’m done praying for Dad this morning, I’ll pray for the rest of my family, friends and loved ones. Then I’ll pray for my enemies and the enemies of God’s people around the world. Then, I’ll pray for the California Supreme Court, the people of California, our President and his impending nominee for the High Court. Oh, and I’ll pray for our country and for countries around the world that are far worse off than our own.
That should keep me on balance—and get more done than if I spend a sleepless night fretting about all of this.
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Let us pray . . .